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Re: Sex question... This may offend some...
Apr 13, 2008 5:26 AM
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That's funny about being a nun. I'm gonna tell my husband that one. He probley feels that way too. I'm not glad anyone else is going thru this... But, I am glad for all the support and advice from everyone about this. Thanks ladies! It's nice to know i'm not alone and can talk about this to someone that understands.
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Happy Momma to: Logan Keith - 4/21/06 10 lbs 3.3 oz. 21 1/2 inches long. Pregnant w/my second baby boy! Due Sept. 12,2008!!! Landon Scott is on the way! I'm so excited!!!
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Re: Sex question... This may offend some...
Apr 11, 2008 9:07 AM
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hey!!!! all i gotta say is he should be lucky he's getting any at all! you know, men have to understand all WE give up during pregnancy; eating certain foods, dealing with all the 'side effects' of pregnancy, alcohol....even our bodies. with all we have to give up ( and don't get me wrong, it's for a very wonderful cause), if a man has to give up a few sexual positions....maybe you should remind your husband all your giving up for the child the 2 of you are about to have.
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first baby,due date is: 10/12/2008
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Re: Sex question... This may offend some...
Apr 9, 2008 6:35 PM
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OK i can't say i have any advice to help you in your predicament. But i can definatly say you are not alone!!!!!!!!! I'm 28 weeks pregnant and i lost my sex drive way back at like week 10...... I just don't care if i have it or not. My husbands frustrated, but dealing with it. He jokes a lil bout how he should become a nun. because "he don't see nun, don't get nun, might as well become a nun" is his lil saying. lol..... Seriously tho You are not alone in this. I wish i could say whether it would change later in pregnancy or not...... but i can't i know for myself it hasn't. and i just don't feel like it will..... But You being a different person it could change after a short time........ Hang in there, He loves you and he'll hang in there understanding it's just part of preganancy and that every pregnancy is different.
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My First Cecilia Jo EDD July 4, 2008
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Re: Sex question... This may offend some...
Apr 9, 2008 9:30 AM
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Girl, you are not alone I'm am 36 weeks throughout my whole pregnancy I feel bad because before I got pregnant my sex drive was out the roof. It seems for some odd reason as you mentioned I could go days without sex and be fine but I feel for my husband I know if we could have sex every day he would be the happiest person on this planet. Different positions we have tried earlier in my pregnancy me on top of him was about the only position we were doing. But came to find out that's doggy style can go a long way and if not laying sideways will do. Don't feel bad you're not a loner good luck with trying new postions and look forward to your growing belly enjoy...................
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Re: Sex question... This may offend some...
Apr 8, 2008 12:35 PM
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Im glad someone posted a reply to this. I was starting to feel like i'm the only one with this problem. Doggy style is pretty comfortable for me. Thanks for the advice. I'm sorry you had to puke while you were intimate with your hubby. It looks to me like he would understand something like that. I don't know any advice to offer tho. It may happen to me one day. I would hope my hubby would understand. Just tell him that you can't control it. And it happens to the best of us. Maybe get him an i'm sorry card. Lol. Good luck. Thanks for posting.
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Happy Momma to: Logan Keith - 4/21/06 10 lbs 3.3 oz. 21 1/2 inches long. Pregnant w/my second baby boy! Due Sept. 12,2008!!! Landon Scott is on the way! I'm so excited!!!
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Re: Sex question... This may offend some...
Apr 8, 2008 12:09 PM
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I understand exactly where your coming from. Im pregnant with my 3rd and im also 17 weeks, and sex is the last thing ever on my mind. Dont get me wrong I love it but after chasing 2 kids all day im usually to tired. But I have found a few positions that I can do. And my sex drive is so low that these are not kinky at all. I have actually found that my husband sitting down and me facing away from him on his lap works well. And I also have done it with both of us laying on our sides is good and its a good position all the way through no matter how big your belly gets. But for me in all three of my pregnancy I have found that doggy style works the best, and I guess its because he does all the work(haha). I am having a little problem of my own if anyone can help. I was having sex with my hubby a few nights ago and I had to make him stop because I had to puke. And we havent had sex since. How can I make this up to him?
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Sex question... This may offend some...
Apr 7, 2008 2:26 PM
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I've been with my husband for 10 yrs. We've been married for 4 yrs. I'm 17 weeks preg. with my 2nd baby. My belly is getting bigger all the time. My boobs hurt all the time. My back hurts a lot. I work 12 hr shifts 3 days a week. I also manage to take care of my son who is gonna be 2 this month and weighs 35 lbs. I dont' mind taking care of Logan at all! I enjoy holding him and loving on him. The awkward question I have is comming...
My hubby is used to all these differant positions when we have sex. Now that my belly is getting a lot bigger and my boobs hurt so much and my back hurts. Missionary position is just about all he gets. I'm too tired to use much energy. I know that sounds bad. My sex drive aint what it used to be. I still enjoy it!!! But, I like it better when he does the work. He's not happy with what he's getting (how he's getting it). I told him that he should be glad he's getting some at all. He's starting to fuss. I just don't know what I can do to get my groove back. I don't want to take all his fun away. I'm not into kinky. So, please don't go there. Lol. The most comfortable position is him on top and me on my back. But, it's getting boring to him. I guess I just need to know some easy positions that wont hurt me and bend me like a pretzel. I'm not very creative. I'm not used to having such a low sex drive either. That bothers me. But, I could go forever without getting any. (it seems) It just don't make a differance to me anymore. It doesn't have anything to do with him at all !!! It's just me. I just want my groove back! How long is this suppost to last? And: Please tell me i'm not alone and crazy!
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Happy Momma to: Logan Keith - 4/21/06 10 lbs 3.3 oz. 21 1/2 inches long. Pregnant w/my second baby boy! Due Sept. 12,2008!!! Landon Scott is on the way! I'm so excited!!!
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