My mom is so demanding, she wants to be control everything from what my son's name is to the decor in his baby room. She never listens tp what I say or what I may want for my own child. She calls him her child and I know I should be thankful for her willing to do all these things for him, but he is my child and my first at that. I feel that she is stilling my joy of bringing my son in to this world. Sometimes I find myself completely absent mnded about my pregnancy am not as excited as I was in the begining. Does that mean am a bad mom? How can I stand up to my mother without hurting her feelings or starting a arguement?