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grannie crazy
My mom is so demanding, she wants to be control everything from what my son's name is to the decor in his baby room. She never listens tp what I say or what I may want for my own child. She calls him her child and I know I should be thankful for her willing to do all these things for him, but he is my child and my first at that. I feel that she is stilling my joy of bringing my son in to this world. Sometimes I find myself completely absent mnded about my pregnancy am not as excited as I was in the begining. Does that mean am a bad mom? How can I stand up to my mother without hurting her feelings or starting a arguement?
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My mother is kind of over bearing too but luckily she lives far enough away that i don't have to deal with her every day. She is always telling me how to do this or that and the worst part is that she changes her mind a couple days later and says to do it the other way! But i have learned to just smile and agree with her then do it my way anyway. What she tells me worked with me and my brother but my son is not us and these things don't necessarily work for him. but don't just throw away her advice keep it in the back of your mind and review it later when you have had a second to think then make a decision on it. Always make her feel like you are taking her advise close to heart but try to explain why you disagree with her. she may get mad but will cool off eventually. and if she still refuses to let you raise you boy then may be you have to put on the tough hat and just tell her to butt out. Remember this if all else fails " The only bad mom is the one who doesn't try." It is hard to be excited all the time but keep your eye on the big picture and it will all be worth it when you hold that little man. hope it all works out for you!!!
this is just the start you need to find away to tell her what you want but make sure to do it so she will be there to help you when and if you need it
i wish you the best in this
I had a very demanding mother but it wasnt when i was pregnant ot was after i had my bab. every time she would cry my mom took her out of my arms everytime. i didnt say anything at first but after i had enough i told her to stop. You need to be honest with your mother and tell her that you want to be able to pick your baby's things. Tell her you dont mind her helping just not that much. she will understand
I would suggest that you tell your mom that if she believes that she did good with you then she needs to trust that you will do good with your own. and no your not a bad mom just dealing with people will make you feel that way.
i honestly have not had that problem, but i can say that if i did i would tell my mother that i love her very much and that i would rly like to experience this for myself. so if you coul plz just let me make my own mistakes and be the bst mom i can me.........just say mom...plz TRUST ME
 
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